Divorce has many aspects of it, most of which are difficult. It is hard to split up, especially if you have children. Another critical aspect of divorce that can affect the outcome of your proceedings much more than you think is the parties’ attitude.
Establishing custody
When parents separate or divorce, establishing a fair custody agreement is crucial for the well-being of the child(ren). However, it is unfortunately extremely common for parents to disagree on what they believe is in the best interest of the child(ren).
What to do?
If you are facing a similar situation, the first thing to do is speak with your attorney. At the same time, make sure you document absolutely everything when it comes to your former spouse’s communication, both with you and the child(ren). You may need it in court.
Is mediation possible?
Sometimes when you encounter a parent who says they will not compromise, they are exaggerating or putting up a front to protect themselves. In many cases, if both parties come together with their attorneys to mediation, it is possible to reach an agreement, especially if the lawyers do the talking.
Court intervention
If the parties are unable to reach an agreement, the court will intervene and ultimately decide on custody arrangements based on the best interests of the child(ren). Factors considered include the child’s age, their relationship with each parent, their living situation and more.
If you find yourself in this situation, seek an attorney. You must understand how courts decide child custody cases because once the court issues an order, changing it can be more difficult.